{"id":6702,"date":"2020-06-11T17:23:08","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T17:23:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.breecollaborative.org\/?p=6702"},"modified":"2020-06-11T17:23:08","modified_gmt":"2020-06-11T17:23:08","slug":"showing-up-imperfectly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.qualityhealth.org\/bree\/2020\/06\/11\/showing-up-imperfectly\/","title":{"rendered":"Showing Up, Imperfectly"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have shown up perfectly zero percent of the time. One of my lifetime burdens is unlearning this desire for perfection. Perfect is not possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This past week I have done some digging into trauma-informed care and am looking forward <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eventbrite.com\/e\/bree-collaborative-behavioral-health-virtual-summit-day-1-tickets-103439903536\">tomorrow\u2019s day one of our Behavioral Health Summit<\/a> for Kody Russell, MSW, Executive Director of Kitsap Strong to talk to us about trauma-informed care. I\u2019ve read that the <a href=\"https:\/\/store.samhsa.gov\/sites\/default\/files\/d7\/priv\/sma14-4884.pdf\">foundation, as outlined by our Federal agencies<\/a>, is that trauma is so widespread that one can assume a person\u2019s behavior is a coping strategy developed because of past trauma. Our current pandemic and economic repercussions are traumatic. Racism is traumatic. Poverty is traumatic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I recommend watching Oprah Winfrey\u2019s 60 Minutes special on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cbsnews.com\/news\/oprah-winfrey-treating-childhood-trauma\/\">Treating Childhood Trauma<\/a>. She says one of the life-changing lessons she took away from the report is learning to ask, \u201cwhat happened to you.\u201d This simple question forced her to unlearn her previous assumptions. Trauma-informed care forces you to unlearn that a person is always behaving rationally.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The process of unlearning is lifelong. One of the other aspects I am building into our work this year is cultural humility. This comes out of a need to <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/10073197\/\">move away from the idea of cultural competence<\/a> that implies a static state of mastery and toward the idea of a continuous process of self-questioning, like hiking up a mountain with no summit. So much of the process of cultural humility is aligned with work to be antiracist. For me, work to be <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibramxkendi.com\/how-to-be-an-antiracist-1\">antiracist<\/a> is like being a person who runs. I do not identify as a runner, but I am a person who periodically runs and as I run all I can think about is that running is hard. Sometimes I hurt myself. Sometimes I would rather never have to exercise again and just float around <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=s-kdRdzxdZQ\">on a perpetual Zoom call like the people in Wall-E<\/a> (which feels a little too close to home at the moment). To be anti-racist one must continuously do the work. This is a process and the process can be hard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I think we must teach ourselves to enjoy the struggle \u2013 that through striving we find our humanity. I so appreciate folks pointing out my blind spots \u2013 a person that I greatly respect responded to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.breecollaborative.org\/2020\/06\/05\/pride-the-power-in-the-personal\/\">last week\u2019s post<\/a> that I should also include class and wealth in my list of people who our medical system disempowers. They are right!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am still learning, and growing, and running up that hill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ginny Weir, MPH<br>Director, Bree Collaborative<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I have shown up perfectly zero percent of the time. One of my lifetime burdens is unlearning this desire for perfection. Perfect is not possible. 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