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I opened my father\u2019s dresser drawer and was stunned to see a multitude of pill bottles, all with their caps off, some empty, and a handful of various pills lying in the drawer.<\/p>\n
\u201cPop, what are all these pills?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
He looked at the drawer and said, \u201cThe doctor gives them to me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I picked up a small bluish capsule. \u201cWhat\u2019s this one?\u2019<\/p>\n
He looked at it and said \u201cIt\u2019s my heart pill.\u201d<\/p>\n
I asked, \u201cWhat does it do?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t know,\u201d my dad said. \u201cIt\u2019s for my heart\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy are the caps off, Pop?\u201d<\/p>\n
He replied, \u201cI have trouble getting the caps off so I just took them all off at once so I don\u2019t have to do it every time I want a pill.\u201d<\/p>\n
There were at least 20 bottles in the drawer.<\/p>\n
So here is my 87 year old father, frail, very sick, dying of cancer, he has a drawer full of drugs, and he has no idea what many of they do. Maybe he gets the right pill at the right time, but who knows? He probably just picked them off the drawer bottom if it was easier. I looked at the bottles and found that five<\/span><\/em> different doctors were prescribing drugs for my dad, for problems ranging from cancer to acid reflux to overactive bladder. Was anybody looking at the big picture? Did all these doctors all know what Pop was taking, and why? Pharmacies can check for potential drug interactions, but what if Pop went to different pharmacies, and didn\u2019t tell the pharmacist about the other drugs he was taking? He could get a drug that might interact with another he was on,\u00a0and that could be fatal.<\/p>\n It got worse. Pop had four kinds of pain medication, some of which are absolutely inappropriate for treatment of the elderly because they are so powerful. Was he taking all<\/span><\/em> of them? And why did he have four<\/span><\/em> bottles of oxycodone?? And enough benzodiazepines to tranquilize a small city?? The reality is that my dad\u2019s experience\u00a0is not uncommon.\u00a0At the same time he was coping with his illness and probably dealing with the enormity of the fact that he was dying, he was\u00a0also trying his best to navigate a system that, for all its brave words about safe care, sets up patients and their families for failure. Sometimes that failure is deadly.\u00a0That failure routinely occurs when someone sees more than one doctor. It isn’t unusual for two or even three doctors to be treating a patient and for each of them to have no idea there are other physicians involved with their patient. Patients don\u2019t always tell you everything they know \u2013 my dad didn\u2019t because his health situation was complicated, he couldn\u2019t remember everything that every provider told him. It was too hard for him to repeat his story every time, so he said only as much as he had to<\/a>. He couldn\u2019t ask my mom for help. She was struggling with end-stage dementia.<\/p>\n I think a lot people are just like my dad – they take the pills because the doctor said so, \u201cas directed,\u201d rarely understanding what the medication will do beyond knowing “it’s for my heart.” They do the simple thing because the system is too complicated and difficult to navigate.<\/p>\n I tried not to think about why he was hoarding all those painkillers.<\/p>\n
\nWhat in the world was going on here? How could anyone expect a dying old man to keep track of 20 different medications?\u00a0Had anyone tried to reconcile his meds? Why didn\u2019t he have a personal medicine list? (Answer \u2013 nobody had suggested it, and he didn\u2019t know it was a good idea to ask for one. He assumed \u201cthe doctors\u201d were taking care of all that).<\/em><\/p>\n